I find myself answering this question a great deal. Before I give you my answer, let me just take a moment to talk a bit about why I am asked this.
Who we are is often determined by the people who most influence our lives at the time. We are always telling our children "You are the company you keep", right? We are the people who influence us, who advise us, who motivate and inspire us and the people who we love and cherish.
When primary people in our lives are no longer on earth, then we have some choices to make. We either stay who we were with them here, or we place them in a very special place in our hearts and move on to the next person we are to become.
When I made the concious decision to become "ME" instead of my husband's widow, EVERYTHING in my life changed! I made a series of decisions concerning who I really wanted to be, where my passion was ignited and even where I wanted to live. This series of decisions clearly described an entirely different person than the one looking back in my mirror.
So, the answer to my own question is a resounding YES. But, here is the deciding factor. Yes, we can change, but WE have the choice. We can either choose to be who we are today or choose to be something else. Of course, we can only hope the concious decision involves becoming a Better person than we are today, but the decision is the same, only the result is flexible.
Regardless of where your passions for change are, be it weight, physical fitness, health, prosperity or success, the results are entirely up to you.
You can sit on your laurels and decide to accept who you are today or you can step up to the plate and change who you are into the person you really want to be.
Take some serious time to evaluate your true self and who you want to look back at you when you look into the mirror. Take a look at your passions, your desires and the vision you have of your future.
The , stay with me as we talk a great deal about how to make this change into an Entirely Different Person. I would love to help you accomplish your goals.
To your unstoppable success...
You sure changed me, Wanda :-) I am blessed to have met you and cannot WAIT to see the wonderful things we get to accomplish together! :-*
ReplyDeleteYou bet! We had a blast didn't we? Anyone can change if they just realize it is in their own hands. Let's deliver the message to everyone togther.
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